Can’t decide about divorce

Your mind is doing risk management

When both futures contain loss, the brain often freezes.

A common trap is waiting for confidence before choosing. But for decisions like this, confidence often comes after you commit.

Try this exercise

Write two futures — stay vs leave — and price them honestly.

  • Best case
  • Worst case
  • Most likely case
  • What you’d regret not trying first

The free checklist gives you a set of prompts to make this comparison concrete.

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